Thursday, August 21, 2008

CF and Dating

The last couple of days I have been thinking about this topic a lot. Now I know I don't have this particular problem anymore since I am luckily married, but truth be told...I never had a problem with these two things.

I have read a few blogs lately, both girls, who write about how hard it is to date and have guys find it difficult to deal with there health or don't want to get serious because of there health and while I read both the blogs on a regular basis and wish that some day they both find somebody as awesome as my Danny (if that's possible!!) I can't completely relate to what they are going through.

Before I met my husband, I had a handful of serious boyfriends starting all the way back to my high school boyfriend when I was 17 and not to mention the guys that weren't that serious in between my CF was never even a main topic it was just something I had to deal with....some of the "not so serious" ones in between didn't even know anything was different. I guess maybe because I wasn't really that sick when I was a teenager/ young adult it was different for me I don't know.

I am not sure why I am even writing this tonight....luckily I didn't have to go through anything like that and to put the cherry on top I also found the most wonderful man in the world who loves me, all of me, CF and all. I just hope others out there find their special someone too.


sunshine rose said...

hey girly! well i'm one of those cf's who is single and i'm now 31. i'm not fugly but i do live in miami which is filled with beautiful women from every where in the world. Let me tell you it's hard as hell to find a good man here. also they always tell you the cf doesnt bother them at all until you get really sick and they cant handle it. in a way i'm glad i was single in my teen and twenties and now, lol. i've experience kind of like a sex in the city life of my own! going to clubs, meeting different types of men, being out until the sun comes up, and being able to do what i wanted without having to ask "my boyfriend" first. lol. i do complain alot about being single but i think i do it because of society and plus i'm cuban and hispanic families like their women to settle down early. check out my blog and you can read all about my whinning about men. lol. god has a plan for all of us and i'm sure he's just waiting for me to have the right one, if not then i'll be happy with myself and my doggies!! lol.